Just a Memory Away
I’m no longer by your side,
but there’s no need to weep;
I’ve left sweet recollections
I’m hoping you will keep.
Eternal joy and memories
stay in our hearts forever,
Strengthening our special bond
that parting cannot sever.
Now it’s time to journey on,
so let your faith be strong,
For I am in a better place…
I’m home where I belong.
And if times of loneliness
bring sorrow and dismay,
Don’t despair, for I am there…
Just a Memory Away.
–Rita S. Beer
Messages to Lawrence
Thank you so much for the love and sharing of yourself through these years of your good life, comforting so many including your mistress! You will be missed.
Goodnight, Sweet Prince. May flights of angels sing thee to thy rest.
–With love from
Aunt Wendy and Uncle Carl
“Oh, Sweet Lawrence—Thank you so much for all your love and care over the years. You are a hero in your very own right! We will miss you, sweet, pup. Now you can rest.”
To our dear Admiral Lawrence,
Thank you so much for all your tail wagging and love that you gave to so very many people, but especially to our Veteran Heroes. We will never forget you! Go Navy Baby!
I have known you since your Mom, Pat, brought you home.
As a devoted and loving therapy dog you have been a blessing to so many people. Lawrence, I am not a dog lover, but you won my heart the minute I met you. I like the saying above from Wendy and Carl–Goodnight, Sweet Prince.
–Maris, and Joe too
You were certainly a Trooper. Thank you for all your efforts for our military heroes.
–Darryl and Teri West
I’ve known you ever since your mom Pat got you. Through the years, you have brought many people comfort and joy while serving as a
faithful therapy dog. Rest well and know that you will be missed.
I feel so fortunate to have met you and to observe you with your mom as a therapy dog team. You had an amazing ability, Lawrence, to sense people’s needs and make a positive difference in so many lives. You are truly a legend in the world of therapy dogs and will be remembered always.
Although it was very hard for me, I was happy to be with you on December 21 as you crossed the Rainbow Bridge. You were surrounded by those who loved you as you moved on to your next assignment.
“Bye, Lawrence. We will miss you. You had a good life and were always so happy when we came over to feed you. It took you 30 seconds to eat (inhale!) your dinner, so that gave us time to play with you. Times we’ll never forget.”
–Cal and Lidl Gillespie
“Lawrence, your patience and sweetness taught me so much, Thank you for being in my life—even for a short while.”
I have been to some Welcome Home and Recognition ceremonies for our troops, but I never had the opportunity to meet you. That disappoints me as I understand that you were quite a dog and the “star” at many of your appearances. I applaud your good works.
–Captain David Yuers, USAFR
“Lawrence, I think of you often. You were always wonderful to visit Bob when he was at Livermore Manor. He enjoyed talking to you and patting you. I hope you and Bob are enjoying each other’s company now, wherever you are. It is comforting to me to think that you and Bob are seeing each other frequently.”
“Albert, I know you had a good heart and loved comforting children as well as seniors. You just missed your good buddy Lawrence too too much and wanted to be with him again. Now you are running together in the green fields.”
Just like Lawrence, you too were very much a trooper.
We will especially long remember your help with dedicating the bench commemorating our two fallen Livermore veterans, in Maitland Henry Park.
–Darryl and Teri West
We were so honored to have met you and worked with you. You were such a good boy! You are now pain free and back with your best buddy, Lawrence. We will never forget you.
–Janet Soderstrom and Bijou
“Bye, Albert. You were such a friendly dog that led a productive life and was cared for. It was always a treat for us to feed you when your mom was out, and to watch you head outside to look for squirrels.”
–Cal and Lidl Gillespie
“Thank you for all the memories and smiles you gave us. We are so grateful to have met you and for your service and unconditional love. We will keep you in our hearts and thoughts always.”
–Love, the Amador Tri-Valley Center & Anka Behavioral Health, Inc.
It was a pleasure to meet you at the Livermore Valley Senior Living. You gave warmth to the hearts of everyone here. I miss you terribly.
Thank you for being at my Welcome Home in 2012. I was experiencing such a swirl of emotions from all that was happening when you approached me. When I petted you I forgot everything that was going on around me. You made me relax and each time I stroked your soft fur, the accumulated stress drained out of me.
You reminded me of the German Shepherds I saw in Afghanistan who stood watch for suicide bombers with IEDs, the Belgian Malinois who went with the SEALS to finally take care of Osama bin Laden, and every other dog who has worn the uniform and fought side by side with the men who have served our country. I salute all of these dogs, but I give a special salute out to you, Albert.
–Captain David Yuers, USAFR
Lawrence, the Livermore Lab, went to Doggie Heaven on December 21, 2013. And two weeks later, his buddy, Albert, went to Doggie Heaven to join Lawrence. Albert was grieving and stopped eating after Lawrence died. Both dogs were registered therapy dogs with Therapy Dogs Inc., headquartered in Cheyenne, Wyoming.
In March 2013, Lawrence’s veterinarian found a mast cell tumor on his front right leg. It was surgically removed, followed by chemo. At his six-month follow-up with his oncologist, there was no sign of cancer in that area, but he was panting much of the time and sometimes coughing. So his oncologist x-rayed his lungs and found masses there. More tests showed masses in his liver too. Four weeks later, the masses were growing, despite weekly chemo treatments. So we tried another chemo every two-four weeks with plans after five sessions to reassess him. We never reached that point. The oncologist diagnosed Lawrence as probably having a cancer in the lining of his blood vessels (hemangiosarcoma), so it spread throughout his body, from the liver to the lungs and beyond. The chemo was tough on him. But he continued to wag his tail to his right and accept treats, even on his final day, just before his veterinarian, Dr. Heather Moore, sent him on his final journey to Doggie Heaven on the evening of December 21.
Albert was diagnosed with small cell (T cell) lymphoma in his intestinal tract in early December 2013. He also had chronic gastroenteritis with GI ulceration. We did not do chemo with Albert. The day before Albert died, we tried acupuncture and herbal treatment. I had hoped he would overcome the loss of Lawrence, but that was not to be. On the morning of January 4, 2014, I found Albert suffering on the family room floor, under the ceiling fan, one of Lawrence’s favorite resting spots. Dr. Moore came over in a couple hours to send Albert on his way to reuniting with Lawrence.
Lawrence was born on July 20, 2001, in Palo Alto. His father Nitro was born at Marstad Labradors on Tesla Road in Livermore, giving Lawrence his Livermore connection. Pat Wheeler obtained Lawrence from Elemental Labs in Palo Alto. He is an AKC registered Black lab. When Pat went to see the Black lab puppies, there were eight adorable puppies, all Black (though the mother was a yellow lab), four females and four males. Pat could not decide which puppy to get. She told the breeder she wanted her dog to be a therapy dog, so he recommended the one that first interacted with people. He turned out to be a wonderful choice. He was named Lawrence, the Livermore Lab. He was one of five dogs to win the Tri-Valley Herald “Name That Cutie” contest in November 2011.
Pat took Lawrence to puppy socialization classes and to basic obedience classes. Those didn’t keep him from chewing up the couch in the family room or the cargo cover in her car. But Pat could see that Lawrence was born to be a therapy dog. One event was particularly poignant. Pat often walked Lawrence around shopping areas. One day, she wanted to head back to the car, but Lawrence had other ideas and had a strong way of making his point known. He “tugged” Pat toward a disheveled drunk man sitting by a trash can outside a liquor store. Lawrence went right up to him, comforted him, and put a smile of his face. Lawrence obviously knew how to do his job!
In November 2002, Lawrence became registered as a therapy dog with Valley Humane Society. The next month, on December 12, 2002, he started work at Golden Manor, a facility in Livermore for people with Alzheimer’s and dementia. He loved going there almost every Friday morning and did so for years, under different owners, until it closed in November 2011. Pat was always amazed, as were staff there, to see how Lawrence could get people to open up, talk, participate, do what staff asked them to do, and bring joy to visitors as well as those residing there.
In July 2004, he started going to the VA in Livermore, until Pat and he were terminated from the therapy dog program there in July 2013. Lawrence accumulated 1,398 hours of service to our veterans. He served them in several areas including short-term care, long-term care, respite care, Alzheimer’s unit, clinical social work group therapy sessions, physical therapy, recreational therapy, memorial services, and Protestant services. It was the day that Lawrence managed to get a patient to walk out of his room on his own that Pat became aware of what a wonderful difference Lawrence could make. No staff had been able to do that, but Lawrence got this person to walk out of his room on his own. Staff were stunned when they saw Lawrence walking with this man. That was the start of Pat collecting many stories and testimonials, first at the VA and then at numerous other sites and programs which lead to the book, Successful Tails: The Wonders of Therapy Dogs (available on-line, Amazon and Barnes & Noble as well as at Cooleykatz Toys in Livermore and Towne Center Books in Pleasanton).
In June 2005, the VA did not have staff available to take veterans to participate in the Rodeo Parade. So the Residents Council asked if Lawrence would represent them. Of course he was delighted to do so. But then the local radio station, KKIQ, contacted Pat to find out which branch of the service he was in and what his rank was. Pat had no idea how to respond. So she went to the VA. In the lobby of the nursing home were two veterans in their wheelchairs, a very large Marine and a very slender Navy veteran. She posed the question to them, with Lawrence by her side. The Marine loudly exclaimed, “Oh, he’s a Master Sergeant in the Marines.” The Navy veteran quietly said, “Oh no, he’s the Chief Petting Officer.” That was the start of the therapy dogs at the VA being “Navy Petting Officers.” Lawrence had just over 100 hours at that time, so 100 hours became the level for a dog to be a Chief Petting Officer. A group of four Navy veterans met and assigned Navy ranks for various hour award levels. When Lawrence reached 1,000 hours in 2010, the Navy veterans at the VA promoted him to “Rear Admiral” for 1,000 hours of tail wagging. In 2006, Lawrence and Pat started to work with recreation therapy staff to coordinate the therapy dog group at the VA. Lawrence was involved in the training and testing of many therapy dog teams over the next four years.
In September 2006, Lawrence visited the mother of Pat’s friend at an Easy Living Care Home (ELCH) site in Livermore and that started many years of visits at ELCH facilities. A resident at one of the homes that he visited in November 2013, said to Lawrence, “Lawrence, when you die, I know you’ll go to Doggie Heaven. When I die, I hope I can go to Doggie Heaven so we can meet again. But if they won’t let me in, I’ll send you my forwarding address.”
Lawrence was invited to make presentations about the work of dogs. He did this at elementary schools in San Ramon and Sunol and twice for the graduate ecotherapy program at JFK University in Pleasanton Hill. Lawrence impressed people with his ability to read and follow commands and his multiple approaches to getting people over their fear of dogs.
In April 2010, Lawrence was invited by the Pleasanton Military Families to attend a Welcome Home Celebration for a troop member. He went to many more welcome homes, scores of them from Oakland to Oakley to Livermore and Pleasanton until November 2013. We established a Petting Officer Pack under the Diablo Valley Flag Brigade for therapy dogs to formally attend the welcome homes in Alameda and Contra Costa counties. Lawrence and his fellow pack members not only went to welcome homes, but marched in parades, attended military ceremonies, etc. His last welcome home was in Blackhawk for a Navy Captain whose father is a Rear Admiral. How appropriate.
Albert found Pat one Friday evening in August 2002. She was doing some errands in town and on her way home saw a black medium-size dog running around on Enos Way, near St. Bartholomew’s Church. At first Pat thought it was her Black lab, Lawrence. So she pulled over and opened the back of her car. This strange dog dashed over, jumped into the car, and started licking Pat’s face. Pat checked at three or four houses in the area and no one seemed to know whose dog this was. All he had on was a rabies tag, so Pat took him home and called Animal Control and the veterinarian’s office where he got his rabies shot. As soon as he walked into Pat’s house, he and Lawrence were best of buddies. They walked around the family room together as if they had Velcro between them. We think Albert was a Border collie/Black lab mix, born in the spring of 2001.
Animal Control had no one available to pick him up until Monday and asked if she could keep him until then. She agreed to do so. When the veterinarian’s office called the next day, she found out who his temporary owners were. They were out of town and the pet sitter lost track of all their pets. They arrived back the next evening. They called Pat and told her that they had been given this dog by a homeless family near Eureka and were hoping to find a home for him. They didn’t need to do that; he had found a home for himself. Pat named him Albert after Albert Einstein, but later changed that to Albert Schweitzer when a veteran at the VA pointed out that “he was not only smart, but also healing.”
After completing some basic obedience classes, Albert became registered as a therapy dog with Valley Humane Society in spring of 2005. He began working as a therapy dog at the VA in May 2005. He worked in the nursing home, short-term care unit, physical therapy, and Alzheimer’s unit. By the time he was terminated by Valley Humane Society in July 2013, he had accumulated 1,002 hours of service to veterans at the VA facility in Livermore.
In February 2006, Albert was welcomed as the first therapy dog ever at Shepherd’s Gate in Livermore, a safe haven for battered and homeless women and their children. At the end of his first year there, Albert earned the “Volunteer of the Year” award. He did a wonderful job of providing unconditional love to the children and their mothers, playing with them and going for walks with them, helping them overcome their fear of dogs, and learning good manners.
In July 2006, Albert started going to Golden Manor and, in September 2006, to Easy Living Care Home sites. Both Lawrence and Albert participated in parades (e.g., Livermore Rodeo Parade, Veterans Day Parade), and attended Welcome Home Celebrations and other military events. Lawrence also performed Arthur Pryor’s “The Whistler and His Dog” with bands in Carmichael (near Sacramento), Livermore, San Francisco, San Ramon, and Union City. After being terminated by Valley Humane Society and no longer able to go to the VA in Livermore, they went to the Amador Tri-Valley Center, Camp Arroyo, the Castro Valley Healthcare Center (Life House), and the Livermore Valley Senior Living. Lawrence also visited the Parkview in Pleasanton.
A client at the Amador Tri-Valley Center said, “I just wish Lawrence and Albert were alive. I loved them like they were my own dogs.”
Both Lawrence and Albert were AKC Canine Good Citizens, Canine Partners, and registered therapy dogs with Therapy Dogs Inc. In 2012, Lawrence was one of six therapy dogs in the United States honored by the AKC Humane Fund for Canine Excellence. In 2011, both received a Certificate of Special Congressional Recognition from U.S. Congressman Jerry McNerney and a Certificate of Appreciation from then Vice Mayor John Marchand. Their favorite command was WORK. They wouldn’t wake from a sound sleep to the words “treat” or “walk,” but jumped up instantly at the word “work.” And whenever Pat got their therapy dog vests out of the drawer, both were anxious to go to “work,” sometimes with both trying to put their heads into the vest. They will be sorely missed by the hundreds of people they have served over the years. Hopefully, they have left these people with many happy memories.
In July 2013, Pat Wheeler obtained a ten-month-old, female Black lab from Marstad Labradors. Named Maddie, she became a registered therapy dog with Therapy Dogs Inc., in October 2013 and is picking up the many jobs that Lawrence and Albert were doing. Fortunately, she loves being a therapy dog—the best job in the world!
More Information about Lawrence and Albert
Thank you for all the memories and smiles you gave us. We are so grateful to have met you and for your service and unconditional love. We will keep you in our hearts and thoughts always.